Communicate!

I love to talk.

I find bliss in talking about things especially feelings. I appreciate expressivenes… If I do something that someone doesn’t like, I appreciate being told. When a misunderstanding occurs, I applaud people who talk things through rather than ignore each other for weeks or even months, then eventually get back to talking like nothing happened.

THAT. IS. TOXIC!

Its Toxic because, Unpoken Words keep piling up and they tend to build into certain emotions and eventually, when there’s a trigger and these words come bursting forth, the words that are released are usually scathing and most times, Relationships are ruined.

A lot of Us assume that it’s immature people that talk about feelings and I’m sorry to say but I consider it a toxic mentality … And some would say that they do not have the time to talk about how they feel so they just ignore. For every person or relationship you value, you will always make out time to talk about your feelings, THAT. IS. THE. TRUTH!

It really hurts to see a lot of beautiful and promising relationships(romantic or otherwise) crumble because one party or both would rather ignore themselves and the situation than talk things through.

Please I urge you to check yourself and if this is You, please make amends and learn to communicate.

It really doesn’t strip you of anything when you express your feelings.

COMMUNICATE!

Love and Light Always,

~THE CITY~