Loneliness

”Embrace Loneliness” is a statement I have come across countless times, and I’ve seen a lot of people make it their life mantra because it is believed that Embracing Loneliness helps you focus on your dreams and less on people(or so people think...Lol). And truly, we’ve all seen a lot of amazing people in the world who made it their life mantra to Embrace Loneliness and they’re doing well today.

Well, I simply want to state a fact from my experiences with people that I want us all to see, understand and hold to your heart.

Loneliness is a choice, something my sister always tells me, and I couldn’t agree more...

But, it is a choice that people have taken because they were left with no other choice.

Agree with me or not, Loneliness hurts!

But it’s a pain a lot of people would rather feel instead of the pain of being let down and disappointed and heartbroken by those they love most.

In my opinion, loneliness is bad, because we all need someone to call our own, but when you’ve been hurt by a lot of people, you literally give up hope that there’s someone out there meant for you, as a friend or a spouse. It does hurt to trust someone, be vulnerable around them and they throw it all in your face, and for someone who has had the kind of experience so many times, they get tired of being broken and opt for loneliness, but even in that loneliness, they hurt!

My point, Nobody is ever truly happy in Loneliness but at least they feel free.

Now there’s no solution to being hurt by people, that’s just the way life is, People will walk into your life and walk out with a piece of you(your heart) and it would hurt and you’ll always have the scars but trust that there’s someone in the world for you!

I want you to hold that thought in your heart always Dear Reader, that THERE IS SOMEONE IN THE WORLD FOR EVERYONE, and when the time is right, the universe will make your paths meet.

Stay Strong, You Are Loved!

REINA