WHAT’S YOUR ANGLE?!

When we are given an equation to solve, each person would definitely apply the formula they’re most familiar with to solve the equation, and beneath the question are options lettered a to d of the possible answer to the equation. After applying our formula to the equation, we arrive at an answer, then we proceed to the options to mark out our answer and BOOM! our answer is not present in the options. Long story short, we try out other formulas and we arrive at an answer present in the options and we mark it, “Yay, finally!” (Let’s not forget that there’s a possibility that we might still have the wrong answer) Or another angle is trying out other formulas and still not seeing our answer in the options column(I’ll be hammering on this angle in this post), the human mind would basically conclude that there’s probably something wrong with the equation.

Now I’ve observed the same with understanding between we humans. I like to consider every human as an equation. And to maintain a proper relationship with a fellow human, we need to understand ourselves, and to do that we have to apply several approaches(formulas) and sometimes, it all clicks on first approach. And there are some situations where we apply all the approach we’re familiar with and we still don’t understand that person, eventually we conclude that there’s something wrong with the person. Now, what if it’s our approach/angle that is wrong?! Remember every human is different. If you applied an approach for A and it worked, that doesn’t mean the same approach would work with D. My point dear reader, is that, you shouldn’t give up on understanding someone and conclude that there’s something wrong with them.There‘s always the option of approaching things from the person’s angle. And my advice, “until you understand them and even after you do, accept their differences!” Not discard your relationship with that person, you never know the role that person is supposed to play in your life!

A lot of us have ended what could have turned out to be great, promising and beneficial relationships because we failed to apply the right approach in understanding the other person.

P.S: As I always say, you can either agree or disagree with me. I’m no island of knowledge. I’m only sharing the little I know. Now don’t forget to like this post and subscribe for more Life Chronicles. Till we meet again next week,

Much Love

REINA.